Tela Network

/ If women are disproportionately insecure about their youth and beauty, men are disproportionately insecure about their ability to be economically productive, because most men realize early on in their life that who they are deep down - their fears, their interest, their dreams, and all the other deeper aspects of their character - will come second to being a tool for others. Men need to be a tool that provides some degree of value for other people in basically all situations. It doesn't necessarily have to be economic in nature, but it _does_ have to have some sort of impact. Because the worst type of man is not necessarily an evil man, nor is it a hateful man. In this life, the worst type of man is a man who never learned how to be a useful tool for others. / https://substack.com/inbox/post/189931070